Bar Mitzvah Gifts – Traditional or Contemporary?

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In the Jewish community, one of the most important rituals in a person’s life is entering their Bar or Bat Mitzvah. Although children are not obligated under Jewish law to observe the commandment, most children do as a way to learn more about their religious obligations they will have as an adult. For people attending a Bar Mitzvah, one of the most important aspects are the Bar Mitzvah gifts. Many people are unsure of whether they should give a gift, and if so, what kind of gift it should be.

Bar Mitzvah gifts traditionally are given but it is best to wait until the reception to give your gift. This is because not all of the people attending the ceremony are there to attend the Bar Mitzvah. If the ceremony were on its own and completely separate from the regular Sabbath service, then giving gifts would be proper at the ceremony. When it comes to the actual gift, there is no set gift that is required. Of course, religious gifts often are the gift of choice. This is because people want to further convey the religious importance of the day for the child. When you give religious gifts, you should take into consideration the recipient. If they are interested in a particular part of the religion, then it is a good idea to get a gift related to that aspect.

If you are not into giving religious-themed Bar Mitzvah gifts, it also is acceptable to get a regular gift for a teenager. Some families treat the gifts similar to that of a birthday party. Some people find it difficult to find a proper religious gift. They still want to give a gift though. If your family, or the family of the celebrant, is more traditional when it comes to Bar Mitzvahs, it is best to stick with religious gifts. You do not want to offend a family by getting a regular gift.

The safest way to go when it comes to getting Bar Mitzvah gifts is by asking the parents. You would not want to unintentionally disrespect a family’s beliefs because you did not know what gift to get. Because many families’ views on Bar Mitzvahs have changed over the years to conform to modern times, it is best to consider who religious the family is. That will make it easier for you when it comes time to get the gift.

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